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7/29/2023 Proud is what I should be feeling, I fought my way out, A better future is what I now have, Why am I numb and angry? Today was the dawn of a new day, It doesn’t feel like new beginnings, I’m in the same old hole I always am, Darkness stealing what little light there is. The only thing I feel is angry, It’s warming my face, It’s burning me to my core, Where is this coming from? Where is my happiness? Where is my peace? Why didn’t the deep breath come? There isn’t any

7/23/2023 ! Adult Content Warning ! Collar around my neck, Sitting in my place, Eyes closed and head down, I eagerly await your arrival. Excitement burning hot, Jittery from the nerves, I hear you walking, Soon you’ll be in front of me. The door opens, You see your little slut, An intake of breath, A moan of desire. The hairs on my neck stand up, Heart beating so fast, Your skin touches mine, I lose all thought, but “Yes, Daddy.” I want to please you, Be a good sub, On my han

7/6/2023 My love, words fail every time I try to explain, What you mean to me. How do I explain the highs? How do I tell you of its depths? My love for you is the feeling while watching the sunset, Gasping at its beauty. My love for you is a faint breeze on a blistering day, Sweet relief during a passionate fire. My love is the darkness of a new moon, All-consuming and surrounding. It is the hope that a new dawn brings, Lighting up the world. In all the days we have ahead of

6/9/2023 Feeling shattered, Leaving a broken trail, Trying to move on, Soul an empty hollow. Heart guarded and walls up, Fear ruling all, Not ready for love, You come into my life. Creeping in, Aura shining brightly, Like a renewing spring rain, Pushing all my boundaries. Soul awakening, Stitching up my heart, Safety felt in your arms, Dissolving all my worry. Hurt becomes a memory, Happiness yields joyful tears, Mind, body, soul aligned, Tomorrow feels like hope. Peace flows

5/21/2023 I still feel you all over me The way we held each other into the night Your touch, so light running down my spine I feel your breath on my face Lost in your eyes that once captivated my soul I can feel your face on my hand I still know the softness of your lips You are written all over my body Whispers and memories lingering My body still aches for all we were together. I need to let you go To let go of all we were All I thought we would be You haunt my every waking

A summary of events during the ITMAF Fundraiser and learn more about the Iowa Trans Mutual Aid Fund and why it is so important for Gender Diverse Iowans in 2025.

There are so many resources out there regarding transitioning that it can be daunting trying to navigate all of the content available. That's where this post comes in! We have collected many resources (most with input from other transgender people) and put them all here for easy navigation!

Our topic this month was all about pronouns. We started off by connecting to last months topic of self-identifying identities. Self-identifying identities also includes self-identifying pronouns. You can't have one without the other.

The time leading up to Cedar Rapids Pride this year was different than every year before... Normally, I am ramping up for Pride the closer it gets. I'd be planning everything I'm going to do. I'd be reaching out to all my loved ones about when/where they're going to be, so I can make sure to meet up with them. But I didn't do any of that this year. Why...? Well, because I was scared. I was so scared that the political climate would impact this beautiful celebration. So much s

June 30th, 2025 Tomorrow, July 1st 2025, THOUSANDS of Iowan's will lose their Medicaid coverage for gender-affirming care that they so desperately need. This means no more hormone replacement therapy. No more gender-affirming surgeries. The only help they will be able to receive under Medicaid is mental health care for their "body dysmorphia diagnosis". There is a lot there to process, but let's try to let that sink in... First up, transgender people in Iowa are having their

June 27th, 2025 On June 23rd, I (Wyatt) hosted the first transgender/non-binary support group for the area. I was really motivated to start a support group because of all the political changes that are affecting this group of people. Since the taking over of office on January, there have continued to be cuts to protections and gender affirming care for marginalized groups. We are all feeling unsafe. The biggest topic we discussed was how identities are self-identifying. This